On Letting Go
Letting Go and Embracing the Art of Self-Care: A Lighthearted Guide
Hello dear readers,
As an HR Executive, I've seen my fair share of work-related stress, personal life upheavals, and even quarter-life/mid-life/three-quarter-life (yes, that’s a thing now) crises. But through it all, I've realized something critical: sometimes, letting go is the best form of self-care. And trust me, this isn’t just because I occasionally forget where I placed my coffee cup (or was it tea today?)!
Embrace the Unexpected:
Life often doesn’t pan out the way we meticulously planned on our pristine whiteboards (or those fancy planners that promise to make you the master of your universe). Remember that dream where you’re the next tech billionaire, only to find that your most significant achievement today was deciding between almond or oat milk for your latte? It's okay. Life's simple pleasures are often the most rewarding.
The Beauty of "Oops!":
Have you ever sent an email to the entire office that was only meant for one person? Or accidentally photocopied your hand instead of that super important document? Remember to laugh at yourself. Finding humor in our blunders makes the path of self-care so much more delightful. And guess what? That email probably lightened someone's day, and your hand? It’s a work of art!
The Joy of Missing Out (JOMO):
Forget FOMO (Fear of Missing Out). Let’s celebrate JOMO. There's an indescribable pleasure in not knowing every trending hashtag, or missing out on that hyped-up party everyone went to. It's okay to sit in your PJs, binge-watch old TV series, and sip on some chamomile tea. You're not missing out; you’re embracing moments of tranquility.
Detox from the Future:
Constantly planning for a future that hasn’t happened yet? Take a break! Let's live in the here and now. Remember when you thought bell-bottom jeans were a long-term investment? Now they're back in style. See, letting go doesn’t mean it's gone forever!
Lessons from Balloons:
Ever notice kids at a fair or a birthday party with balloons? Sometimes they let them go, watch them float up into the sky, and just marvel at the beauty of the moment. They don’t dwell. They let go and find joy in the present. Be like those kids. Release the balloon of expectations and watch as the universe surprises you.
In Conclusion:
My Friend, remember, it's not about disregarding dreams or aspirations. It’s about embracing change, finding laughter in the unexpected, and reveling in the present. Life is too short to be anchored by "what could have beens". Letting go isn’t a sign of weakness; it's a testament to your resilience and adaptability. So, the next time you find yourself stuck, imagine me, your friendly HR Director, cheering you on from behind a desk strewn with misplaced coffee cups. Let go, laugh a little, and let life surprise you.
Happy self-caring!
With warm regards (and just a hint of mischievous humor),
Your HR Bestie
Angela
